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You are responsible for what you do? The technique

Siete responsabili di quello che fate ?

take responsibility for what you do is a concept out of fashion forever. The person who steps forward and says openly, "I was the one" is considered just a fool.

But in the practice of BDSM things should be very different for very good practical reasons.

Each "play" BDSM presents risks, things that can end badly (even if only by accident or misfortune).

If you think for a moment, you really leaving a whip (or one) if you already know that this person will never admit to have made a mistake, to have given a blow too hard or have given in the wrong place?

If you think for a moment, let yourself really tie one (or a) you've already heard phrases like "You have your hands (or legs) insensitive? your fault that you're not strong enough / o!!" or who regularly shakes the ropes a lot and have apparent coincidence?

Please be aware that this is not about the authority of a ruler, nor his right (in the broadest sense, and always in the context of consensual relationships) to decide what to do and to always be submissive to / a.

The point is that a dominant (or dominant) has the right to dictate anything to the submissive / a but should not evade the consequences of what they choose to do. If

avoids the consequences of his actions, if he proves to shake off the responsibility for what happens, if it gives immediately the blame for what happened to the submissive / a, then this person is not a dominant but it is only a coward, in my (not so) humble opinion. If
behaves so is not only a master but a dangerous man who snatch what they can (or is it just a fool who does not know what they are trying to do), if you act like this is not a mistress but it's just a dangerous selfish / egocentric who cares only about herself (or is it just a fool who does not know what they are trying to do). Also according to my (not so) humble opinion.

this should reflect on all those who choose to dominate, whatever the label, which boasted (master, mistress, master, mistress, dom, goddess, divine, teacher etc).

should reflect well on this particular all submissive / slave ee / e, as only possible targets of their own irresponsible behavior of the dominant.