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Kung-fu BDSM: knowing how to

The word in Chinese Kung-Fu is not only related to the martial arts, like many of us Westerners think. Its meaning is

"the competence of a person in any business, art or craft, achieved through hard work and practice"

Questo stesso concetto si può applicare alle attività pratiche del BDSM.

Chiunque sia attratto dal BDSM pensa e fantastica su ciò che vorrebbe fare o su quello che vorrebbe subire.

Ogni atto che compiamo o che subiamo ha le sue conseguenze e alcune delle conseguenze delle pratiche BDSM sono potenzialmente molto pericolose.

Se legate una persona nel modo sbagliato, potete addirittura comprimere un nervo lasciando insensibile un braccio o le dita della mano. Dato che questi effetti posso anche essere permanenti sono da evitare assolutamente.

Quindi è necessario imparare a legare in modo da evitare cose del genere.

Una frustata data sulla zona sbagliata del corpo oppure on too strong, can provide internal injuries. Think of a blow given (by mistake?) On the face or in the area of \u200b\u200bthe kidneys. So it is necessary

learn to use a whisk to avoid such things.

Trampling can crush a person's internal organs and cause injury. Think about what happens if the neck is squeezed, which is an extremely critical.

Then you need to learn to make in order to avoid stepping on something.

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No person shall or may have the presumption to be able to run a BDSM practice only because they want to or because they saw her make a video !

Each practice has its own characteristics and each practice is necessary to pay attention to different details but very important to prevent accidents and to play safely.

Personally I know I do not know all these details for all possible practices of BDSM. I know I do not know everything but I also know of several important details of some practices that have performed or on which I have been very well informed.

With great humility in this blog I would like to talk in general safety in BDSM, but also go into detail for several practices that I know because I've personally tried to do it, after I informed and have seen other people who were doing well. In addition I will advise others charged with proven experience regarding the practices that I know less.

Let me be clear: I do not will teach you to do the techniques that I will talk .

will talk about every single technical point of view of safety in its performance, highlighting the details of which to be careful to avoid the worst mistakes and thus to avoid, where possible, to hurt someone or that they should have hurt by someone.

Never play saying "I like this because it goes well, I read about Safe and consensual"!

The RESPONSIBILITY for what you do or do you ever do is yours. No
blog, book, movie or advice you can or should replace your feedback. No
blog, book, movie or board you are replacing your responsibility when you decide to act one way or another.

What I'm trying to do here is give you the encouragement to learn, or if you want, try to convey my personal experience but just to give you the material on which to develop yours.

Power criticize my point of view or what they write, in fact I expected to do so. Each has its own experiences and his trial, and it is wrong to accept criticism without a single point of view. My own:)


JedriK

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Arrogance in BDSM is dangerous

often arrogant attitudes are dominant.

Okay, this can there be in a dominant. Indeed very often like.

For a man submissive what is more exciting than a mistess beautiful, proud and haughty, who treats him like a nonentity? This dynamic relationship is exactly what a lot people want to slave and that's great that the subject will also enjoy the contempt of their goddess in all her fury and splendor.

for a submissive woman what is better than a master demanding, strict and inflexible that the face feel small and protected? This dynamic of a relationship is exactly what many women want to slave and that's great that you should also have submitted the groom and blame their gentleman that fixes firmly and intransigence.

But the arrogance and contempt can lead to other consequences far less pleasing.

Arrogance can be too much or misused.

The arrogance is too much when it becomes total indifference to the health of divers. Think of a

dominated during a time when BDSM game sees its sub turn red in the face and started to gasp, no apparent reason related to the game itself. The normal reaction to all We expect that this ruling is to stop doing what he was doing and try to help the victim who is clearly a health problem. Any person who sees a man gasping and red-faced trying to soccorrelo, he does lie down, asking how he feels, takes action, called an ambulance and accompanied him to the hospital and so on.

Think of a domain that during a time of BDSM play sees his diving double over and hold her stomach in pain, for no apparent reason related to the game itself. Even the normal reaction is that this dominant succor the unfortunate now that obviously is wrong. Any person who sees a woman bent double by a pain in the abdomen and eventually rescued the door in hospital. If a

/ a dominant excess of arrogance ignores a illness of his (or her) subject, this dominance is doing something very wrong and stupid. This seems obvious to anyone. But in the game

BDSM things are more complicated than that. Because a dominant

take the responsibility to do the actions, gestures that are not trivial social interactions.

a whip, a tight rope, a heel down too, an emotional abuse that affects one weakness are all actions that can lead to very unpleasant consequences.

When they happen it is necessary to both take responsibility for possible consequences negative, sia sapere, per quanto è possibile, cosa fare e come.

E' necessario sapere quanta forza applicare, fin dove affondare, in quale modo affondare, quando farlo.

Vista da questa prospettiva, l'arroganza menefreghista di un master troppo duro che non dosa i colpi che  infligge ad una schiava può costare cara. La superbia indifferente di una mistress che veramente non si cura di cosa succede ad uno slave che sta calpestando può essere distruttiva.

Occorre distinguere l'arroganza come stile di comportamento, come atteggiamento nel rapporto dominante / sottomesso dall'arroganza di chi non si cura delle conseguenze fisiche delle sue azioni.

La prima è più indeed it is acceptable that a very exciting aspect of BDSM for all participants.

The second fact is not acceptable is something that everyone should pay close attention. What are dominant, submissive or innocent bystanders, that sort of arrogance should NOT be tolerated.



JedriK


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do the obvious thing: why security The security is not important

It should be obvious: safety is always important. A

the more important activities of BDSM practice. No trip

a motorbike without a helmet, for good reason: the protections in the event of an accident you literally saved my life. Although it is annoying to keep the helmet on his head, sweating in the summer, when off the bike and do not know where to put it is inconvenient to take him back. But if you've seen, even if You are really looked at without turning his eyes, the results of a motorcycle accident, a terrible moment in which a person has become really bad, you almost certainly thought too: "Thank goodness that at least had the helmet, otherwise it would also split his head. "

practice of BDSM activities are risky.

A cord or pendant throttle close, too strong a hit in the wrong place can cause injury or damage. I'm talking about permanent damage, no scratches or numbness. A trampling done randomly can hurt or cut, and if a woman throws a football on the neck of a victim or presses on the heel too jugular vein can severely damage a person. Allow to bleed, strangle her.

Every person who agrees to be or want to have a practice of BDSM in part accepts the risks involved. But risks must be reduced within the limit of what can be done.
Any person who decides to make another person to suffer a BDSM practice of accepting the risk that can go wrong, which for a thousand reasons why something goes wrong and an accident happens. But still the risk must be reduced to the limit of what can be done.

How to reduce and control the risk?

The first thing to do is not completely carried away by the enthusiasm and "lust" of the moment. Who is running a practice have to think before making it to the as must run and as it is better not to run it. The must "design" in order to avoid unnecessary risks.
the sufferer should think about what reasonable and what is not reasonable to suffer. Must have an idea of \u200b\u200bthe risks that each involves. Must observe the other person, that he does, and should consider whether it is behaving responsibly or if you do not care.

Of all these things is all possible to speak before taking action. Indeed it is only right for everyone.

The purpose of this blog is just that, talk about BDSM practices, risks in general and of each, to conduct a "dangerous" or not.

Why the difference in practice is often what is known or what is ignored and I think it is better to know. Maybe something to read and meditate, if only to know they're not agree with what you have read.
What I write is my bag of flour, but I will try to present my experience and honestly in the case to cite my sources. I am certainly not the only one to have affected this, but much of the material that is the Internet is in English or another foreign language. To date I know of no other Italian site focused on this topic. There are many reputable sites and BDSM in general, where you can find many people arguing and thus security considerations in BDSM, but I do not think that so far there is a dedicated website.

whereas there is a need to talk about safety, both for the curious, for beginners and experts alike. Tornado

example of motorcycle helmet, I know you as well that, in reality, if not all make it forever. There are always people who "prefer to be comfortable" or simply do not care about the consequences. But BDSM is diverso dall'andare in motorino.

Se vai in motorino senza casco, sai già che sei tu solo che rischi la tua stessa vita.

Se fai BDSM fregandotene della sicurezza invece fai rischiare almeno un'altra persona, il partner con cui giochi.

Forse lui (o lei) non è daccordo.



      JedriK


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we talk quite

Di sicurezza nel BDSM non si parla a sufficienza.

Diciamolo chiaro: se ti prendi una frustata data male e troppo forte o se una mistress ti calpesta e ti infila a heel in the neck, you're in trouble.
're in trouble even if you really enjoyed that moment and would like to do it again.

In the practice of BDSM is necessary attention and precision. E 'is one who acts must also take responsibility for what he does. E 'must be those who like to consider how the agent behaves.

is not a moral discourse, it is not imposed a list of acceptable and prohibited practices.

's just common sense.

Every action has its consequences, and all participants in the game must agree on what is fatto.Qui talk about BDSM, non-violence to dominate it. Violence is unacceptable, no matter what. The
BDSM is when the practice is consensual, that all participants agree and want it to happen, without reservation. But you must agree to have understood the dangers and the possible bad consequences and accepted them in some way.

Given that the practicalities are many, many, only a list of possible hazards of each is not enough. E 'needed constant attention to what happens moment to moment, you need to talk and think about what might happen or something bad has already happened to others to try to treasure it.

Because one day, a crumb of attention more (or less) could have bad consequences. E sto parlando proprio di te, non pensare che gli incidenti capitino solo agli altri.