perhaps have a license to do anything?
Many dominant men and women have a way to do extremely hard.
What could be more exciting for a man who subjected a Mrs. strong-willed and insensitive as it is a total nullity, was bullied mercilessly, as it imposes its whims laughing at him and cruelly punished?
What could be more exhilarating for a woman subjected to a strict and inflexible master who uses it for his own pleasure, the vents on your every whim and inflicts terrible punishment for the slightest failure or simply whenever you decide to do so ?
A ruthless demeanor and attitude has a lot of sense in a BDSM relationship.
should make a very important distinction : What is a style and temperament but all else are responsibility , know-how and self .
should never be confused.
Each has its own dominant style and his way of doing.
Some have the attitude of teachers / teachers and / or to instruct the submissive willingly / in explaining what they want and not what they want. Others have a strong-willed temperament and just expect total obedience (without explanation) by the submissive / a. Some have an attitude almost paternal (or maternal) and deal with the submissive / a as an adult with a child / to be corrected. Some are whimsical, others are patient (usually only up to a certain extent), others insist on very few issues, others are interested in different situations and / or practices. Some are very experienced, others have less. Some dominate through some form of psychological pressure, others rely heavily on physical punishment. Some require a structured system of rules and punishments. Others simply demand what they want at that moment and to punish their opinion and will.
But things that are indispensable to any ruling, whatever its style and the way they are responsibility, self and know-how .
Even a cruel mistress, willful and capricious must never fail to be Responsible, self-control and ability to practice BDSM sceglie.
Anche un master severo, inflessibile ed esigente non deve ma mancare di essere resposabile, autocontrollato e deve saper fare le pratiche BDSM che sceglie.
Se un dominante si fa prendere dalla sua stessa durezza e arriva a mancare anche solo in una queste tre aree, allora sta agendo male, sta per mettere in pericolo il suo sottomesso/a e (se non l'ha già fatto), sta per cacciarsi da solo/a in grossi guai e forse quello che fà può anche arrivare a scadere nella semplice violenza (che non è il BDSM!) .
E' necessario che questo sia ben chiaro sia a chi domina sia a chi è sottomesso.
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