BDSM is made of very strong emotions and physical sensations overwhelming.
The actions of BDSM that do or do we leave often come from deep drives, fantasies for a long time we have grown and we are more than happy to practice as soon as we find the right partner and a good opportunity .
But since the
BDSM is not violence, it is necessary that those who act able at any time not to lose his self-control. At a time when self-control is lost, the risk of causing or receiving injury or permanent physical damage becomes very high.
For whatever your personal reason to make a practice BDSM, the thing that you may not want to do it is to cause real damage .
My advice is that you make an honest examination of conscience (if you have not already done) and if you do not mind so if you do not mind the consequences of your "game", I strongly suggest you acknowledge that you not really been looking for BDSM, but you just want an "excuse" to vent your violence, and perhaps of all this there are not even aware of it.
Think about it.
========== Speaking of self-control in BDSM, you can see an asymmetry: if those who are below you lose self-control, this usually does not have harmful consequences (although few concrete There is danger). Often one of the goals (though not the only one) decides to stand under is just managing to leave their self and come to trust completely in the hands of their own / a dominant.
But if the dominant or the dominant lose control, put whoever submits himself (and even themselves, indirectly) in a great danger. A danger that must be avoided and which can be avoided.
Who is dominant in control of what happens. If you take too much of the time, if in excess of alcohol or drugs, if it yields to anger, if he does not know the determination of any action that does or does not care about the consequences of prosecution, this (or this) is making a serious mistake dominant.
Because, in my opinion, when a dominant (or dominant) exaggerates, stop being a practitioner of BDSM and only becomes a violent or violent.
why I say that self-control technique is zero for every practicing BDSM. Even
if the dynamics of domination / submission often leads who submits himself to accept the views of psychological control without criticism from / of the dominant is very important that those who did attempt to assess whether subjects who dominates it has enough self-control or not.
Slaves and submissive, if you see your / a dominant lacks self-control, which is carried away by the emotion of the moment, if you get angry and react instead of act, if you do not care what you do or how to do it, if does not control the consequences of its practices, even if you do not listen to your description of how you have endured and suffered what he (or she) has given you, then probabilmente siete nei guai ... forse vi conviene pensare bene se volte veramente affidarvi proprio a quella persona.
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C'è un motto antico che dice : Conosci te stesso .
Tra i molti significati che sono stati dati a questa frase, c'è l'ammonimento a conoscere i propri limiti, «conosci chi sei e non presumere di essere di più» . Questo è un principio filosofico generale e chi lo ritiene valido lo applica a se stesso (o a se stessa) per tutte le cose della sua vita.
Da questo motto io derivo quest'altro: Nel BDSM, Controlla te stesso. Sempre.
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