(Note: This article part of a series of notes in circulation BDSM)
In BDSM practice is called "stage" when the real activity takes place.
scene
The word is also used to indicate a total of all the people, places and dates of BDSM. I will not speak of the BDSM scene in this general sense but I'll give hints of how to organize and conduct a single scene of BDSM play in reality.
A scene can take place in private (domestic intimacy and present only the people involved) that in public (at a party where there are other people watching and can potentially intervene). There are also cases in which there are both intimate and public appearance. As always there are people involved who choose and decide if their BDSM is a private matter between them and their partner or if you wish to perform and be seen by other people (and even by those who decide to be observed).
The concept of "play" BDSM limited only to certain moments or scenes is not a universal rule that applies to everyone.
In many cases, BDSM is experienced by a person at all (or almost) all aspects of his life in private and / or on public occasions. It is possible to imagine all levels of involvement, from more than simple until you get to lifestyle choices that are commonly known as BDSM 24 / 7 (understood as 24 hours per day, 7 days a week, without interruption or exit from the "role"). In these extreme cases, it is more correct to speak of "roles" to interpret (such as master and slave or master and slave in a scene) it's moments of "game". These are lifestyle choices, and each must judge if this is what he or she really wants .
In all cases, always apply the general considerations about Security , Ability, Responsibility , Trust, Respect and SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) .
From these considerations are born all the practical aspects of BDSM .
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