After speaking in general Security , Ability, Responsibility , Trust, Respect and having described the concepts that are the symbol SSC, I would like some information on how to conduct and organize a practice session of BDSM.
Speaking of these arguments do not invent anything but I will refer to concepts and practices disseminated and shared in many international community of BDSM. These topics are treated in many specialized sites and even WikkPedia. has a series of articles about it. If you read English, you can for example read this article and those related.
write a series of articles in which I will speak (in Italian) of these topics
- A BDSM scene
- expectations and needs
- Roles
- Limits
- State The health
- safeword
- type of "game"
- tools and clothes
- Duration
- security measures
- Sexual contact
- After the scene talk again (debriefing)
I should point out that this "scheme" or "way of seeing" the practice of BDSM is not the only, nor is the best possible .
not make the mistake of thinking all the BDSM you can just as focused on moments of the game well separated from the rest of life. Although many people live their BDSM as moments of "evasion" separated from the rest of their lives, for many others this distinction is meaningless because they live it in their daily lives, without showing it to anyone going to tell anyone. Here I intend to mention is those people who live the BDSM is total (for as those that make a life choices generally defined as "24 / 7"), both of those people who, without feeling the need to decide the most extreme and visible, are based on family relations and sexual and agreed to an exchange wanted control (for example, people who live in the Domestic Discipline - Domestic Discipline - or similar relationship or where the woman develops an active form of control on the man who accepts the Fenice)
I will use the "logic" above only as a method narrative, that will use it to say a few things that can be useful to all people interested in BDSM.
Everyone will obviously make an effort to decrease these topics in own reality and in its context.
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